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Talking About Sex Is A Taboo In Armenia

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Sex is a taboo topic in Armenia, and as such, many children turn to the internet for answers about this and other intimate topics. While schools have introduced basic lessons on living a ‘healthy lifestyle’ that touch on the topic, most experts agree they are not fit for purpose.

‘We went on a camping trip at the age of 12. We slept in a very small tent; all of us — girls and boys — slept mixed together. In the morning, my stomach began to hurt, the pain grew and I started to cry. When my classmates learned I was in pain, they made fun of me, saying I had got pregnant overnight from my classmate sleeping next to me’, 18-year-old Lilit (not her real name), recalls.

‘I know now it was a childish innocent joke, but on that day, I believed that if a girl and boy lay alongside each other, the girl could get pregnant.’

Talking about sex is a taboo in Armenia. According to Lilit, it has always seemed inappropriate to talk about, even at home with her mother.

When Lilit got home to Artik, a town in the north-western Shirak Province, she began to search for information about pregnancy online.

‘I was so glad when I realised that a girl couldn’t get pregnant just by lying side by side with a boy. But then I began to wonder if I was raped — all because I had caught a cold and had a stomach ache.’

‘I found a lot of rubbish [online]’, says Lilit, ‘and then I understood what stupid articles I was reading’.

Lilit’s younger sister is 13 years old. Unlike when Lilit was her age, she is better informed.

‘My parents don’t talk about this topic with my sister either’, Lilit says. ‘To tell the truth, I also felt embarrassed to. Then I noticed that just like me, she was reading some news on the web and realised that I should not let her go down the wrong path like me.’

‘Step by step I began to speak about it with her and now we can talk about sex with each other very freely’, says Lilit.

Lilit is currently living and studying in Yerevan to become a psychologist. She says whenever she is told by her lecturer to make a study on a sexual topic, she finds it a complicated task.

Lilit says she turns to special groups on Facebook that are only for women. ‘There was a case when I tried to make an inquiry about an intimate theme, the question was the following: what they know about sex. The reaction was terrible. When someone dared to talk openly on the subject, other users hurried to shut her up, asking her how she was not ashamed of writing such things, or simply labelling her immoral’, says Lilit.

The internet: a double edged sword
Doctor Vahe Asryan, a clinical sexologist at the Hormone medical centre in Yerevan, says that sexual education is very much neglected in Armenia.

‘With age, children seek to understand their bodies, they become mature and many questions accumulate. At home, they are ashamed to talk to their parents and begin to target the virtual domain to find the answers to all their questions’, Asryan tells OC Media.

Asryan says that people frequently call or write to find out the different ways a woman can fall pregnant. ‘For example, one says that she kissed a man and supposed she was pregnant from a kiss. Another is worried about whether it’s possible to get pregnant just by touching through clothes.’

The reason for all this, Asryan says, is that ‘people do not get sexual education earlier, at a proper age’, adding that even once children grow up and start their own family, they still continue to seek answers to many questions only online.

Asryan recalls a young couple coming to him arguing. ‘It turned out the wife had read an article online about sex and was telling her husband that their sex life was “wrong”. Her husband insisted that they were not making any “mistakes”. When I talked to them, it turned out the woman had read some bad article on an untrustworthy website and actually the couple had no problem. It also turned out the woman had talked about the topic with her friends, shared the news, and that they had all now come to the conclusion that they were living “wrongly”.’

Asryan says he has seen a positive change in the last five years in that people have started to raise the problem.

‘In this sense, the internet comes to the rescue. People open profiles with fake names on social networks and write to doctors from these pages. In this case, they are not ashamed and speak freely both about sex, basic hygiene, and other issues.’

Asryan notes that some families do educate their children about sex from an early age, even consulting with specialists on how and when to speak with their children about what topic.

‘However, no one teaches anything at the general education level. In schools, we have courses that actually have nothing to do with the sexual education. Nothing is taught there.’

‘My colleagues and I have had schoolchildren visit us who have had some problems at school, some issues arose, and they have asked for help from a teacher who they were relatively close with and were not embarrassed to speak about an intimate topic with. It could be a teacher of physics ot an art teacher — that is, a person helps the child who does not have the professional qualification.’

‘Healthy lifestyle’ classes
According to most experts, the most responsible period for sex education is during puberty — beginning around age 10 until the age of 17, as during this time adolescents go through both physical and psychological changes.

In 2008, the Ministry of Education introduced a ‘healthy lifestyle’ course in secondary schools for year 8–11 students (ages 13–16). Within this subject, children learn about the negative effects of smoking and drug use, HIV/AIDS, puberty, and more. The class included just 14 hours of teaching per year, conducted by physical education teachers.

Anahit Muradyan, chief specialist at the ministry’s Education Department, says the classes are conducted by physical education teachers because the subject is a part of general fitness education. ‘All teachers pass special training every 5 years’, she says.

Muradyan says the classes have been a success. ‘We are studying the adolescents’ behaviour and I can point out that the lessons have yielded results. The students are quite informed and have knowledge about sexually transmitted diseases.’

She says there are problems with the classes about smoking as by year 8, ‘it’s too late for many of them because they already smoke and have their own experiences. In this regard, the issue of including the course in the school system from an earlier age is being discussed.’

A different approach
Sex education is often taught differently in private schools to the ‘healthy lifestyle’ lessons on offer in state schools. At the Anania Shirakatsy Armenian National Lyceum, a special subject called ‘Ethics for Armenian Women/Men’ has been taught for more than 20 years. Generally, the subject is taught separately to boys and girls, but there are joint classes on some themes.

The aim of the subject is to encourage independent decision-making of young people and the formation of their sexual self-consciousness. This course is mostly taught in the 11th grade.

One of the teachers at the lyceum, Irina Khanamiryan, curator at Yerevan State University’s psychology centre, says that the teenage years are the time a person starts to perceive and understand their gender.

‘Sexual education does not at all mean a transfer of knowledge about sexual relations’, she says. Instead, according to her, it teaches an understanding of gender roles, of the opposite sex, and of relationships.

According to Khanamiryan, even adults who have a lot of experience working in education feel constrained and shy when speaking about these topics. She says these are often the adults who use unnecessary shame and disinformation when discussing such topics with children.

‘A teenager always asks himself: “who am I? what is my place in this world? what kind of relationships should I build? how?”, and so on. In the field of education as well as in the family, a teenager should always get support when seeking answers to such questions’, the psychologist states.

Today, in Armenia, experts in the field are unanimous that to properly educate youngsters on such topics, first of all, the awareness of both the teachers and parents needs to riese.

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Davos: US ‘Behaving Very Strangely’ For An Ally — ECB Chief

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The United States “is behaving very strangely” for an ally, European Central Bank President Christine Lagarde said Wednesday, as US President Donald Trump steps up his campaign to take Greenland from NATO ally Denmark.

Trump’s bid to seize the Arctic island has opened up the deepest rift between Washington and Europe in decades, with the US leader threatening tariffs on several countries over their opposition to his designs on the Danish territory.

Asked in Davos in an interview with French radio station RTL whether the United States was an “ally” or “adversary” of the EU, Lagarde responded: “They are behaving very strangely for allies.”

“When you are allies under the North Atlantic Treaty, when you have been allies for decades and have been part of each other’s history, threatening to seize territory that is clearly not for sale, such as Greenland, and waving tariff restrictions, and various other restrictions on international trade, is not really behaving like an ally,” she said.

She said she would be paying close attention to the US president’s speech later Wednesday at the annual gathering of the world’s economic and political elite.

Lagarde, chief of the central bank for the 21 countries that use the euro, said she was not planning to meet Trump in person, but thought his speech would be “interesting”.

“Once President Trump has redefined his position this afternoon in Davos, it will allow Europeans to determine what they are going to do together,” she said.

“For me, what seems fundamental is unity and determination.”

Speaking later at a panel in Davos, Lagarde also warned that further fracturing of the global economy could be bad for business, especially for big players in the artificial intelligence industry.

If you ask the “big spenders” in AI what they need, “they will say access to data as large as possible, they will say scale,” she said.

“Now that would be significantly jeopardised if we have limited access to data because of different privacy laws around the world and more protectionist barriers that would prevent the scaling of this investment,” she said.

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Trump Threatens Europe With Tariffs Over Greenland As Protesters Rally

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US President Donald Trump on Saturday escalated his quest to acquire Greenland, threatening multiple European nations with tariffs of up to 25 per cent until his purchase of the Danish territory is achieved.

Trump’s threats came as thousands of people protested in the capital of Greenland against his wish to acquire the mineral-rich island at the gateway to the Arctic.

Thousands more protested in Copenhagen and other Danish cities.

The US president aimed his ire at Denmark, a fellow NATO member, as well as several European countries that have deployed troops in recent days to the vast autonomous territory with a population of 57,000.

If realised, Trump’s threats against Washington’s NATO partners would create unprecedented tension within the alliance.

From February 1, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, France, Germany, the United Kingdom, the Netherlands, and Finland would be subject to a 10-per cent tariff on all goods sent to the United States, Trump said in a post on his Truth Social network.

“On June 1st, 2026, the Tariff will be increased to 25%. This Tariff will be due and payable until such time as a Deal is reached for the Complete and Total purchase of Greenland,” he wrote.

“These Countries, who are playing this very dangerous game, have put a level of risk in play that is not tenable or sustainable.

“Therefore, it is imperative that, in order to protect Global Peace and Security, strong measures be taken so that this potentially perilous situation ends quickly and without question,” Trump said.

Trump added that he was “immediately open to negotiation with Denmark and/or any of these Countries.”

‘Make America Go Away’

In Nuuk, thousands of people, including the territory’s prime minister, Jens-Frederik Nielsen, waved Greenlandic flags, chanted slogans and sang traditional Inuit songs under light rain.

Many wore caps with the words “Make America Go Away”, a riff on Trump’s “Make America Great Again” slogan.

“We don’t want Trump invading Greenland; that is the message,” 44-year-old nurse Paarniq Larsen Strum said at the Nuuk rally, calling the situation “nerve-wracking”.

“We demand respect for our country’s right to self-determination and for us as a people,” added protest organiser Avijaja Rosing-Olsen.

In Copenhagen, charity worker Kirsten Hjoernholm, 52, said it was important to show unity with Greenlanders.

“You cannot be bullied by an ally. It’s about international law,” she said.

Around her, demonstrators waved the flags of Denmark and Greenland while chanting “Kalaallit Nunaat!” — the vast Arctic island’s name in Greenlandic.

Some also held placards saying “USA already has too much ICE,” referring to Trump’s deployment of federal immigration officers in US cities, while others chanted “Greenland is not for sale.”

Trump has repeatedly claimed that the United States needs Greenland for US “national security.” He also claims that Denmark is incapable of ensuring the territory’s security, notably from China and Russia.

France said the military exercise in Greenland was designed to show the world that they will defend the territory.

Denmark said the US had been invited to join the drill.

It was not immediately clear what authority the US president would invoke to impose the threatened tariffs of up to 25 per cent.

Since returning to the presidency, Trump has unleashed sweeping tariffs on goods from virtually all trading partners to address what Washington says are unfair trade practices and as a tool to press governments on US concerns.

Washington and the European Union struck a deal last summer to lower US tariffs on key European goods, with the deal currently being implemented.

Also on Saturday, a delegation of US lawmakers was wrapping up a visit to Copenhagen for talks with Greenlandic and Danish politicians.

The group, led by Democratic Senator Chris Coons, told reporters that Trump’s stance was misguided and not backed by the majority of Americans.

It is also roundly rejected by Greenlanders, 85 per cent of whom — according to the latest poll published in January 2025 — oppose the territory joining the United States. Only six per cent were in favour.

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Election: I Escaped From Them, Uganda Opposition Leader Speaks From Hiding After ‘Arrest’

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Ugandan opposition leader Bobi Wine said Saturday that he had escaped a police raid on his home and was in hiding as the country braced for the results of a fraught election held under an internet blackout.

Earlier reports by his party suggested that Wine was forcibly taken away in an army helicopter from his home on Friday, a day after elections marred by reports of violence.

The President Yoweri Museveni, 81, looked set to be declared winner and extend his 40-year rule in an election marred by reports of at least 10 deaths and intimidation of the opposition and civil society.

As Uganda endured a tense wait after Thursday’s polls, Museveni had a commanding lead against Wine, 43, a former singer turned politician who was arrested ahead of Uganda’s last election in 2021.

With final results due around 1200 GMT Saturday, there were conflicting reports about Wine’s whereabouts, following claims that police and the army had raided his home on Friday night.

“I want to confirm that I managed to escape from them,” Wine posted on X on Saturday. “Currently, I am not at home, although my wife and other family members remain under house arrest.

“I know that these criminals are looking for me everywhere, and I am trying my best to keep safe,” he added.

There was a heavy police presence around the capital, Kampala, AFP journalists saw, with security forces forcing people off the streets as they sought to prevent the sort of protests that have hit neighbouring Kenya and Tanzania in recent months.

Police said they had “controlled access in areas we feel are security hotspots”.

“We have not necessarily denied people accessing (Wine), but we cannot tolerate instances where people use his residence to gather and… incite violence,” police spokesman Kituuma Rusoke told reporters.

A stall-owner near Wine’s home, 29-year-old Prince Jerard, told AFP he had heard a drone and helicopter at the residence the previous night, with a heavy security presence.

“Many people have left (the area),” he said. “We have a lot of fear.”

With more than 90 per cent of votes counted on Saturday, Museveni was leading on 71.9 per cent to Wine’s 24.5 per cent, the Electoral Commission said.

Wine, 43, whose real name is Robert Kyagulanyi, has emerged as the main challenger to Museveni in recent years, styling himself the “ghetto president” after the Kampala slum areas where he grew up.

He has accused the government of “massive ballot stuffing” and attacking several of his party officials under cover of the internet blackout, which was imposed ahead of the polls and remained in place on Saturday.

African election observers said Saturday they saw no evidence of ballot-stuffing but denounced “reports of intimidation, arrest and abductions” targeting the opposition and civil society.

This “instilled fear and eroded public trust in the electoral process”, former Nigerian president Goodluck Jonathan told reporters in Kampala, representing election observers from the African Union, as well as regional bodies COMESA and IGAD for east and southern Africa.

He said the shutdown of the internet “disrupted effective observation” and “increased suspicion” but that the overall conduct of the polls on election day was “peaceful”.

Analysts have long viewed the election as a formality.

Museveni, a former guerrilla fighter who seized power in 1986, has total control over the state and security apparatus, and has ruthlessly crushed any challenger during his rule.

The other major opposition figure, Kizza Besigye, who ran four times against Museveni, was abducted in Kenya in 2024 and brought back to a military court in Uganda for a treason trial that is ongoing.

There were reports of election-related violence against the opposition.

Muwanga Kivumbi, member of parliament for Wine’s party in the Butambala area of central Uganda, told AFP’s Nairobi office by phone that security forces had killed 10 of his campaign agents after storming his home.

Police gave a different account, saying an “unspecified number” of people had been “put out of action” when opposition members planned to overrun and burn down a local tally centre and police station.



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