Nollywood actress Toyin Adewale has shared her stance on whether marriage is a do-or-die thing for her.

While speaking with her colleague, Biola Bayo, on her podcast, she said it isn’t a do-or-die thing for her, especially when there is domestic violence. According to her, if there’s no violence and it’s just a misunderstanding, then she can’t leave her husband’s house.

She questioned where she would leave and questioned if the next person wouldn’t be worse. Toyin said when she got married, she was determined never to leave, provided there wasn’t any violence.

The veteran revealed that she got married in January 1993 and welcomed Mayorkun in March 1993. She said she has been married for 33 years and is the gentle type.

Toyin Adewale and family
Toyin Adewale, husband and kids
“Marriage isn’t a do-or-die thing for me. I wouldn’t stay if he beats me. If there’s no violence and it’s just a minor misunderstanding, it’s normal. Why do I leave? Do I know what will happen where I am going? I got married with the determination of never leaving my marriage, provided there’s no violence.

I got married in January 1993 and had Mayowa in March 1993. I have been married for 33 years. I am the gentle one”.

Speaking about her career, Toyin said she found her way into acting and enjoys it. She said she began acting professionally in 1988 and her first pay was N5000.

“I just found myself in acting, and I enjoy doing it. I started acting in 1988. They paid me 5000 naira, I can’t forget. They gave us clothes, and we performed before the president. It was my first job that brought me to the limelight”.

She also spoke about her father, revealing that he is married to four wives, each of whom has one child. According to her, she is the lastborn.

Toyin said her father was a disciplinarian, and he fixed a lot for them. She revealed that he bought his grave cloth, did his grave and paid all necessary dues to the churches.

“My father had four wives, and each wife had one child. I am the lastborn. He was a disciplinarian, so he fixed a lot for us. He bought his grave cloth, did his grave and all. He paid all the necessary dues to the churches and all and told them to sign so they wouldn’t stress us when he died”.

Nollywood actress Toyin Adebola, better known as Toyin Tomato, has written a tribute to her late colleague, Kola Oyewo.

It was reported hours ago that the veteran has passed away at 80. His junior colleague, Kunle Afod, announced his death, noting how Nollywood has lost a true legend. He said that Oyewo’s remarkable talent, timeless performances, and immense contributions to the Nigerian theatre and film industry will never be forgotten, and his legacy will continue to inspire generations to come.


Taking to her Instagram page to mourn, Toyin noted how he came, saw and conquered. She noted how death is inevitable, and one isn’t permitted to question God.

She described the deceased as a great dancer, lecturer, uncle, father, and grandfather. Toyin expressed how blessed she was to have been present at his 80th birthday.

Bidding him farewell, she said he would be greatly missed.

“ERIN WO!!!

Uncle K, as you are fondly called! You came, you saw, and you conquered. Death is inevitable, and we are not permitted to question God. You have gone to be with your Creator, and I am certain you are seated by His right hand: a great dancer, a lecturer, an uncle, a father, and a grandfather. How blessed I am to have been present to celebrate with you at your 80th birthday on the 18th of April 2026; that memory will linger forever.

The Balogun of Oba-Ile has gone! Labaluyeke has gone! Baba Adewale lo, baba Adeyemi lo, baba Adetoyese lo, baba Adegoke lo, baba Oluwatobiloba lo.
You will be greatly missed, my dear brother. Goodnight”.


A month ago, Afod had received praises from his colleagues over his show of love to veterans, Chief Kola Oyewo and Peter Fatomilola. The Yoruba actor visited the veterans’ house, where he paid his respects.

While speaking with Kunle Afod, Oyewo revealed that he couldn’t play sole roles again because of his illness, which had caused a major setback for him in the industry. Chief Oyewo revealed that the illness started with frequent urination, which led to lack of sleep, and after several tests, it was discovered that he had an enlarged prostate.

In other news, Toyin Tomato won the praise of many for her show of love to veteran Mama Mistura Asunmo, otherwise known as Iya 2d. The Yoruba star, alongside some of her colleagues like Toyin Adewale, Bose Akinola, and others, had built a new house for Iya 2d.

That wasn’t the first time Toyin had gone all out for Mama Mistura Asunmo.

When the veteran turned 80 years old in 2022, Toyin, who is her goddaughter had organized a birthday party for her. The city of Ibadan was on shutdown as the likes of Faithia Williams, Fausat Balogun, Toyosi Adesanya, Akin Boss, Rose Odika, and more supported the celebrant.

A social media controversy involving prominent Kannywood actress Hadiza Gabon, businessman Salim Goje and his wife, Hafsat Kamal, has continued to generate intense reactions across various platforms, with thousands of users following the unfolding drama.


The controversy began late Friday night when Hafsat Kamal, who is married to Salim Goje, took to Instagram Live where she allegedly shared screenshots and videos which she claimed were evidence of her husband’s relationships with several women.

During the live broadcast, Hafsat displayed what she described as conversations between Salim Goje and a number of women, including renowned Kannywood actress Hadiza Gabon.


The controversy intensified after screenshots purportedly showing WhatsApp conversations between Hadiza Gabon and Salim Goje began circulating on social media.

Screenshots shared by Hafsat Kamal allegedly showed the pair engaging in intimate and sexually suggestive conversations.


In one of the exchanges that circulated widely online, Hadiza Gabon was purportedly seen discussing plans to travel to Saudi Arabia and allegedly asked Salim Goje to pay for her flight ticket.

The screenshots quickly became one of the most discussed aspects of the controversy, although their authenticity has not been independently verified.

Hafsat also accused several other women, some of whom she alleged are married, of maintaining relationships with her husband.


In addition, she made allegations against Salim’s first wife, Shafa Ardo, claiming she had used spiritual means to prevent her from having children.

Hadiza Gabon Yet to Respond

As of the time of filing this report, Hadiza Gabon has not publicly responded to the allegations or the screenshots circulating online.


The actress remains one of the most respected figures in the Kannywood industry, having spent nearly three decades in the entertainment sector.

Beyond acting in numerous successful films, she is also the creator and host of “Gabon Talkshow,” a popular interview programme featuring actors, entertainers and notable personalities.

Observers say the allegations, if proven true, could potentially affect the public image of the actress, who remains one of the most recognizable faces in northern Nigeria’s film industry.

Video Shows Attempt to Reach Wife’s Residence

Meanwhile, another video circulating online allegedly shows Salim Goje attempting to gain access to Hafsat Kamal’s residence shortly after the Instagram Live session began.

However, the house was reportedly locked.

During the livestream, Hafsat appeared visibly distressed as she claimed unidentified individuals were attempting to force their way into her home.

“Lock the window, lock the door,” she was heard saying repeatedly in apparent panic while speaking to viewers.

The dramatic livestream attracted thousands of viewers, while reports indicated that curious residents gathered outside as the incident quickly became a major topic of discussion.

Shafa Ardo Fires Back

Reacting to Hafsat’s allegations, Salim Goje’s first wife, Shafa Ardo, issued a response on social media, dismissing claims that she was responsible for Hafsat’s inability to have children.

According to screenshots circulating online, Shafa wrote:

“You are not a woman who keeps secrets. Everything you accuse others of doing to you happened before you were married. You even followed him to Saudi Arabia before marriage.”

She also rejected allegations linking her to infertility issues.

“You know what is preventing you from having children. It has nothing to do with me,” she reportedly stated.

Mixed Reactions Over Alleged Leaked Chats

Some online users expressed disappointment, arguing that public figures should conduct themselves in a manner befitting their status.

Others urged caution, noting that screenshots and display names alone do not constitute definitive proof of authenticity.

One X user wrote:, “People should wait for proper evidence before rushing to judgment. Anyone can use another person’s name or picture online.”

Another commenter said, “If these chats are genuine, it will be disappointing because many young people look up to these personalities.”

Memes, jokes and commentary have also flooded social media as users continue debating the authenticity of the leaked conversations and the allegations surrounding them.

Salim Goje Breaks Silence

Although Salim Goje has not directly addressed the allegations, he made a brief post on Facebook late Thursday night in Fulfulde.

He wrote: “Allah hokka kowa no wada. Amin.”

The phrase translates as, “May Allah guide everyone to what is good. Amen.”

Many of the responses to the post expressed sympathy for the businessman, while others advised him to focus more on managing family matters privately rather than allowing personal disputes to play out on social media.

As discussions continue across social media platforms, many observers are awaiting official statements from the individuals involved, particularly Hadiza Gabon and Salim Goje, regarding the authenticity of the alleged messages and the claims currently circulating online